Deran
From Johannesburg, South Africa
40 y.o. man seeking woman 30-42
- Height: 5'7" / 170 cm
- Weight: 176 lbs / 80 kg
- Body type: About average
- Hair: Black, Medium length
- Eyes: Black
- Ethnicity: East Indian
- Zodiac sign: Cancer
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Last update: March 23, 2025
Member since: March 10, 2025
Username: Rorschach
Member ID: 1346861
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Active within 2 days
Last update: March 23, 2025
Member since: March 10, 2025
Username: Rorschach
Member ID: 1346861
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About Me
Hello,
This is me...
I am a binge-watcher of movies, series, and YouTube by default, adventurer by occasional necessity and whisperer to pets. If I'm not deep in a gaming session or lost in a series marathon, I’m probably out crossing off a bucket list item like skydiving—or bravely creating this profile.
Calm, open-minded, transparent and believe in being the change I want to see in the world is at my core. It's frustrating to see how ego, selfishness and intolerance negatively affects our muggle world and instead of trying to better ourselves, there are judgments and blame.
I enjoy people’s stories—good, bad, or mundane. It’s fascinating that we arrived at this exact moment in life, where our paths happen to cross—whether it’s clients I pitch too, colleagues on a project or strangers reading this profile. I find the words people use don’t always reflect the story behind them, so I like to focus on why someone says something.
I don’t believe in soulmates or meet-cutes anymore. But I do believe in the magic of getting to know someone—someone who’s kinda like me in terms of values, yet the total opposite where it matters. Because balance is key to all things in life Someone who enjoys great conversation, shared laughter, and the occasional existential debate, like... was Thanos right?
If you’re down for deep chats, stability, and a little chaos in co-op mode, let’s talk.
About My Match
Someone who shares a love for series, movies, gaming, and the occasional adventure. A sense of humor is a must—or at least the ability to pretend to laugh. I’ll take what I can get. :)
I’d be happy to get to know people like this, but for a deeper friendship, traditional values like honesty, integrity, kindness, patience, and understanding are a must. Mutual respect is important to me, as is supporting each other’s personal goals. What are your goals ? - big, small - doesnt matter. Do we have shared goals? No idea yet—but let’s find out.
Balance is important, too much alike and we are bored but too much unalike we grow apart. I’m great at cooking but terrible at washing up. So, the ideal balance here? Someone who enjoys eating home-cooked meals and knows how to operate a dishwasher.
Strangely getting a lot of messages without uploading a pic (not sure if thats a good thing or bad thing), so if you do message - quote your favorite movie/series line, and I dont know spanish.
About Myself
- English (native)
- Master's Degree
- Design/Visual & Graphic Arts
- Agnostic
- Divorced
- I have no kids
- No
- Non-Smoker
- Never
Personality and Interests
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Calm, Communicative, Friendly/Kind, Gentle, Humorous/Witty, Practical, Romantic, Simple
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Skydiving/Hang Gliding/Flying, Yoga/Meditation
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Cooking, Movies/Videos, Video games
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Cajun/Southern, Fast Food/Pizza, Indian
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Hard Rock & Metal, Punk, Rock
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Comics, Fiction